Very discreet, not shiny as on the description (which is a photo magdied) because the insets are tiny in real (the diameter is 3-4mm) the stem is short, she doesn't hurt, I can leave to sleep. No allergic reaction. As I was looking for something small, and especially that is on the surface, (a height of 2mm Max.) I am satisfied. Thanks for the speed of delivery. Diameter 3mm so the insets are so tiny that they shine only when the light is directed on them. I was looking for something with a maximum height of 2 mm so that the jewel is perfectly plated on the ear. It's perfect! Very very fast delivery, thank you!